me thinkin abt how perry the platypus is Often referred to as an egg laying mammal, even in his theme song:
Not to forget when Candace was in his body she was able to sweat milk.
considering everyone in the family was totally accepting of the fact he could lay an egg, everyone in the family thus is aware of and loves their trans platypus
There’s also a scene where a professional platypus hunter makes mention of the venomous spurs of the male platypus—as i recall, Doofenshmirtz is surprised, and questions Perry about it, only to get a shrug in response and no indication that Perry has spurs in the first place….
any unwanted attention like whistles or comments especially the ones that make a person feel uncomfortable
How can you know it’s unwanted?
because I don’t fucking want it
Well okay but how can you know that another woman wouldn’t want it?
How are random people supposed to know a comment on your appearance will psychologically destroy you?
There’s a line.
“I like your dress!” is acceptable. “You! In the red blouse! You’re gorgeous!” is also acceptable. “I like how your dress clings to your ass, sexy!” is NOT acceptable. “You! In the red blouse! Nice tits!” is also not acceptable.
Let’s put it like this.
If your “compliment” refers directly to:
a person’s ass
their genitals
their breasts (or lack thereof)
how much you want to have sex with them
how you want to have sex with them
wanting to have sex with them against their will
seeing certain parts of that person’s anatomy (sexual or not) in a specific, sexual act
calling the person a name that is considered ‘degrading’ or involves profanity
‘pet names’ on a stranger
then it is not a compliment, it is catcalling, and consequently, is harassment.
So as I was saying. There’s a line. “Hello, beautiful.” is alright. But “Hello, beautiful. Those lips look perfect for sucking my cock.” has crossed that line.
Do not cross the line.
Here’s a good litmus test: Would you pay a woman the same “compliment” if your mom was standing right next to you?
If not, keep your mouth shut.
Here’s another test: would you say it to your mom? If not that’s probably because you’re doing something creepy and/or overtly sexual.
Telling your mom she looks gorgeous or has a nice dress on is a legitimate compliment on a person’s appearance. Remarking on your mom’s ass, tits or acts you’d like to perform with/to her is a cat call and is no better said to a stranger than to your mother.
In addition:
A compliment is delivered respectfully.
Even if the content is respectful, if you are shouting it across the street, it can still be disrespectful. A polite compliment is only delivered if the person is open to receiving them. It doesn’t interrupt their day if they don’t want to be interrupted.
“Excuse me?” Wait for a reaction, and if they seem open to it, “I hope you don’t mind my bothering you. I just wanted to say, I love your haircut.”
Polite is polite, period. Remember all your manners. Apply them!
A compliment is not invasive. It does not interrupt. It doesn’t draw attention to someone who does not want attention drawn to them.
If a person is grocery shopping, walking down a street, reading a book, listening to music, you don’t yell at them across the aisle, the street, the sidewalk.
You never ever touch them or grab them.
Don’t interrupt people’s activities! If they’re reading a book, that means don’t bother them. If they’re listening to music, don’t bother them.
Don’t interrupt conversations! Don’t yell at them! Only compliment people once you’re within conversational volume distance.
Don’t make other people turn to look at them or draw attention to them. Many people don’t want to be the center of attention. Many people are shy. Many people are unsafe if attention is drawn to them.
Deliver compliments privately, or at most in front of their friends that they are obviously out with, not in front of strangers or the world.
Do not expect anything in return for your compliment. Compliments are not currency. No one owes you anything for being complimented, not even a thank you. They may or may not feel comfortable at being complimented, no matter how you do it, because of how often they have been catcalled in the past, or “complimented” with expectations, or manipulatively. Don’t take it personally.
Compliment altruistically. Compliment to build people up, not tear people down.
Compliment honestly.
If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all, especially to strangers.
My mother said to me, “Do not settle for a weak minded man because they will try to control you and contain you. But once they realize that they cannot control you, they will kill you.” I think this is a message for all you strong women out there.
I recently wrote an article about reproduction and stop surrounding that and one of the parts I included in the article was the gestation period of demons if a demon gets pregnant. I decided initially to have it as 25 weeks, which is about 6 months but I had also thought about changing it to a year, probably around 50 weeks.
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